Y’ALL!

Hello friends – if any of you are left after I all but abandoned my post – or erm, blog posts. This is me, Butch, and I am happy to be writing my blog again. I have missed this part of being ButchOnTap. Missed sharing things from my brain, heart, and life – though I’ve … Read more

What to do if your teen comes out as non-binary

Parenting is already a tough gig. But if you’re unprepared for your teen to come out as non-binary, it will get exponentially harder. Not understanding what it means for your teen to be non-binary, or how to deal with it, can seriously hurt the relationship between you and your teen.

Of Poor Lighting & Dancing Porgs

My wife and I are at a hotel getting ready this morning. We went to see my favorite comedian Trevor Noah last night. Like many people, I aways feel a bit playful at a hotel. I don’t know why. Maybe because you don’t have to make your bed? Maybe because you don’t know anyone around … Read more

Stuck On You

Tonight, while my wife was packing, she asked me to fix her nice Swarovski crystal earrings for her. There was a moment after she asked me – before I said yes – where she doubted my abilities. At least that’s what I thought when she said, “I guess I can do it.” “What do you … Read more

My 200th Post!

I realized today that the next post I write will be my 200th – in other words, this one. Wow. Happy 200th! Here are some observations from me on this momentous occasion: Writing is good for me. Sometimes it is easy. Other times it is almost impossible. But it is always good for me. There … Read more

My Knee is Prettier Than Your Knee

What’s up, Bots? I hope you had a lovely Veterans’ Day, and if you are a veteran, thank you for your service. Today I have been busy getting things done. First physical therapy (three times a week now), which basically means that I pay people to hurt me. A lot. As I am struggling through … Read more

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