Be Butch.
In trying to keep up with the times, I have been forced to purchase a pair of skinny jeans. For any of you who are not familiar with the skinny jean, it is a tightly tailored or fitted jean that tapers dramatically at the ankle. This is the kind of jean that you tuck into … Read more
On the day after Santorum “suspended” his campaign (I know, let’s all take a moment…), I want to know … Why don’t the Republicans want me? I mean, seriously, I am an untapped market for the Republicans. I am one of those people – not a 1%er by any means – but a person with … Read more
It’s funny how I fit into the straight parenting world. I’m not comfy with “the moms” but it’s not like I feel totally in sync with “the dads.” Again, I cannot help but ponder on the differences, albeit slight, in being butch. Take my son’s t-ball practice. I took him to his first one and … Read more
I think it’s safe to assume that porn is part of every man’s life. But how about us butches? Roll call…who reads porn? Do you indulge in a Playboy or Playgirl every now and then? To be clear, I do not mean with your partner. That kind of reading is different (and much sexier) than … Read more
Attention all butches and straight guys! This is a public service announcement for Valentine’s Day. What’s that, you say? It’s over two weeks away? More than 14 days? No need to worry about that yet. You have plenty of time. WRONG! Please allow me to give you some advice. Let me offer some tidbits I … Read more
Today, as we sat at the Loving Hut for lunch, it occurred to me just how far I have fallen from my former self. I grew up as a meat eater – a meat lover, really. Beef, mashed potatoes, and corn was a typical meal. Or, ham, mashed potatoes, and corn. Or, pork chops, mashed … Read more
So, I just made it out of the ladies’ room unscathed. This is a daily stress for me. Allow me to explain. For a butch, using a public restroom is one of the worst things. I don’t present as a typical woman right? And, I certainly am no lady. This makes a trip into the … Read more