Be Butch.
Dear Unleashed by PETCO: Hey, my wife and I are fans, and shop y’all exclusively. Perhaps you can imagine our shock tonight when I answered a call from a man at Legg Research (or something like that) calling me on your behalf. I answered and he said, “Is this the male of the household, sir?” … Read more
I’m going to Dinah. Are you? Check out this press release with new details: CLUB SKIRTS IN ASSOCIATION WITH SHOWTIME® PRESENTS “THE L WORD®” DINAH POOL PARTY WITH AN EXCLUSIVE MEET & GREET WITH STARS KATE MOENNIG & LEISHA HAILEY Palm Springs, CA – Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend, in association with SHOWTIME, is bringing … Read more
I’m excited to share that I am now in print. Actual print. Like, you can pick it up and read my article in your hands. On paper. A local magazine called Gay San Diego asked me to write a Valentine’s Day piece. About bow ties. Turns out I am the Feature on page 3, and … Read more
I’ve done it. It feels so… So… L-E-G-I-T-I-M-A-T-E. I got a post office box. A big one, too. Now you can send me stuff! Want me to see the cool bow ties you make, the all-in-one-bottle-opener-ball cap you designed, your wife’s prized petunias? You name it. Use the post office box. I want to hear … Read more
Hi all. I’m headed to surgery bright and early this morning. So early, in fact, that it’s dark outside. The thought is they will rebuild my Bicep and clean up my rotator cuff or labrum (which sounds dirty every time I say it). I’m butch enough to admit some trepidation. Hell, I’ll even call it … Read more
I wanted to propose to my gorgeous amazing femme. But how? I knew it had to be … Click over to Huffington Post to read on. If you like my stuff, will you please let HuffPo know? Follow me and like the post. Maybe even share it? Thank you so much!
Hey team, I need help. I get asked a lot of questions about butches and being butch. I can and do answer a bunch of these gladly. I am very excited to try and represent our diverse community and ecstatic to have a platform to do so. But I cannot answer all of them alone. … Read more
(Notice the clever, but oh-so-subtle use of “Holidays” instead of any particular December religiously-identified festivity.) Alright, so you just realized that your daughter is a butch. Or you have finally realized that your mom, who you always knew was a lesbian, is a butch. Maybe your co-worker or boss is a butch and you want … Read more
As promised in my last post, I am going to share some things about the whole getting married process. Here goes. The first wedding-y thing that She and I did was go to a bridal bazaar. Fun, right? Yes, you are probably imaging right now that I signed us up gleefully and dragged her to … Read more
I am sitting in a tower suite at the Hard Rock in Las Vegas staring at Mrs. Jaxon. And, by Mrs. Jaxon, I do not mean my mother (hi, mom!). No, I mean my wife. We are here on our honeymoon. That’s right. Honeymoon. You know the amazing woman who answered my call out to … Read more