Be Butch.
Attention all butches and straight guys! This is a public service announcement for Valentine’s Day. What’s that, you say? It’s over two weeks away? More than 14 days? No need to worry about that yet. You have plenty of time. WRONG! Please allow me to give you some advice. Let me offer some tidbits I … Read more
Today, as we sat at the Loving Hut for lunch, it occurred to me just how far I have fallen from my former self. I grew up as a meat eater – a meat lover, really. Beef, mashed potatoes, and corn was a typical meal. Or, ham, mashed potatoes, and corn. Or, pork chops, mashed … Read more
Today’s musing starts at the gym. This afternoon I worked out next to Gerald McCoy, a defensive tackle for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. This guy gives new meaning to the word “huge.” He goes 6’4” and 295 pounds according to the NFL stat page. I didn’t see any fat on him; how can you weigh … Read more
Today we stopped at a fancy yoga boutique so that my fiancé could get a bag for the gym. There is this one lovely bag that is pewter with lots of pockets (I am told) that she really wants. It even comes with a secret brownie recipe tucked into one of those pockets. The bag … Read more
As many good butches, I love ties. Bow ties, long ties, skinny ties, fat ties – I love them all. For a butch, a tie is a major fashion statement. It dresses an outfit up. It makes an outfit cool. It can add a bit of uber-geek nerdiness to an urban sheik outfit – for … Read more
I had one of those super great parent moments today. When you are just bursting with pride over something your kid says or does, you know? Only this was way cooler than my kid using a complete sentence, saying please, or sharing a toy (these are great, too, of course). I wanted to talk to … Read more
I would like to talk about a serious problem. Something so rampant and disturbing that there should be a slew of 501c3 organizations dedicated to eradicating it. Maybe even a telethon. Waiting for my femme to get ready. I feel like I spend half my life waiting for her to be ready. Ok, that’s an … Read more
So, I just made it out of the ladies’ room unscathed. This is a daily stress for me. Allow me to explain. For a butch, using a public restroom is one of the worst things. I don’t present as a typical woman right? And, I certainly am no lady. This makes a trip into the … Read more
I am a butch. This blog is about what I think. If you do not know what butch means, you are probably on the wrong blog. In the interests of inclusion, though, I can tell you that “butch” means a lesbian that is big, strong, tough, more macho, less girly. Of course, there are no … Read more