Be Butch.
Just a celebratory note that the Mayans were wrong! We are all still here! Hooray. If I’d really been scared, really been sure the world was ending, then I would have to think that I’ve been given a new life. A brand new chance to make what I want of my life. Wouldn’t I? Shouldn’t … Read more
On my recent trip to Cabo San Lucas, I spent one dreadful hour doing something called “water aerobics.” I have never done “water aerobics” before. Indeed, I thought they were just for older people, much older. But, there I was drinking by the pool with my new lesbian friends – who are awesome, btw. Super … Read more
Last week, my son lost his 3rd tooth. He brought it home from school in a tooth shaped necklace holder. He was very excited to leave it for the Tooth Fairy (TF). She must be a femme, right, with that name? Anyway, tooth in hand he was excited. I realized that I did not have … Read more
I was inspired by my blog idol, Butch Wonders, to do a regular post about some of the funniest search terms that land people at my blog. After checking in with Butch Wonders, I am proud to proceed with my first edition of this. So, here are the top 10 oddest or most interesting search … Read more
This morning I was dropping my kids off at school when I realized something. While walking back to my car, I saw myself through another mom’s eyes. I inhaled sharply as I realized that this morning, I look like just another lesbian. Meaning, stereotypically boyish/sloppy/casual. I spend a fair amount of time talking about style … Read more
So this is part review, part travel journal, and part introduction. I am Butch Jaxon, intrepid entertainment lawyer by day, by night, lesbian blogger, lover of bow ties, breasts, movies, music (all kinds), bookstores, dogs, geocaching, Polar Bears, the gym, travel, craft beer, and my gorgeous fiancé. I write a tiny little blog over at … Read more
OMG! ButchOnTap is the “Cool Blog of the Week,” according to Denise, one of the hosts of the Lesbian Lounge on mylesbianradio.com. Hooray! I am so excited! They will talk about ButchOnTap this Wed (July 25th) from 8:00 p.m. to 10:00 pm EST. The Lesbian Lounge is a LGBT talk show that streams live and … Read more
This weekend is San Diego’s LGBT (gay, for you old-schoolers) Pride Parade and Festival. This is the equivalent of a butch’s high holy days. As big as it gets – at least if you live in San Diego. This weekend is the time that hundreds of thousands of gays and lesbians, their friends and families, … Read more
Sometimes you just feel like crap. No reason. Sometimes you just hurt a bit. It’s important to get in touch with that feeling, to let it sit. Sometimes. Probably not the best time to write a blog that tries to be funny. So I won’t. I’ll write again soon, though. Most likely about our amazing … Read more
As a butch in a butch-femme relationship (not all butches are, of course), one must be aware of one’s role in the relationship. We are the strong ones. The helpful, gallant ones. We are obedient and faithful. As such, there are a variety of things that should not escape our lips when we are addressing … Read more