Be Butch.
My wife and I are at a hotel getting ready this morning. We went to see my favorite comedian Trevor Noah last night. Like many people, I aways feel a bit playful at a hotel. I don’t know why. Maybe because you don’t have to make your bed? Maybe because you don’t know anyone around … Read more
Tonight, while my wife was packing, she asked me to fix her nice Swarovski crystal earrings for her. There was a moment after she asked me – before I said yes – where she doubted my abilities. At least that’s what I thought when she said, “I guess I can do it.” “What do you … Read more
What’s up, Bots? I hope you had a lovely Veterans’ Day, and if you are a veteran, thank you for your service. Today I have been busy getting things done. First physical therapy (three times a week now), which basically means that I pay people to hurt me. A lot. As I am struggling through … Read more
Hi there. It’s been awhile since we’ve talked. I know, I know I haven’t written or sent you any pictures. I haven’t even called. I feel awful. I’m sorry. Here’s the thing. I am having a really hard time right now. I can’t talk about it. Don’t even want to. I just need some time. … Read more
I am very excited to be able to launch an exclusive here at ButchOnTap. Sophia B, who I have written about before (here and here), is releasing her newest video for the song, “We Are Listening Venezuela” today. Right here. The London based singer and songwriter released her first ever Spanish song “We Are Listening … Read more
Hey Bots! I need some help as I am working on one of my focus areas – Be healthy: less chemicals on and in my body. Today, let’s focus on the “on” my body. Specifically, body wash and hair products. I have been using Jack Black facial moisturizer for several years. I really like it. … Read more
Over the past few weeks, I have been reflecting on what I’d like to accomplish and focus on this year. Perhaps this extended period of navel gazing is because of my fever, or lack of sleep (I’ve got pneumonia). Whatever the reason, I appreciate the renewed focus. Like many of you, the new year brings … Read more
Happy New Year everyone! I’ve spent most of the last 2 weeks in bed or on the couch because I’ve been really sick with Pneumonia. That didn’t stop us from ringing in the New Year, however. Instead of splashing out on the town, we had a quiet night in as a family. My wife and … Read more
My wife and I had an interesting moment this morning. She was watching Mary Lambert’s new video, Know Your Name. My wife tells me that “Callie” from Gray’s Anatomy, Sara Ramirez, is in the video. I like her, so I look over. Just in time to see her unhooded (she is actually in a mysterious … Read more
Who knows what I mean when I say “chosen family?” These are people that you choose to think of and treat like family. You weren’t born with or adopted into them. You choose each other. I am an only child. Ask any of my past girlfriends or my wife, they will tell you. “Butch is … Read more